Are you struggling?

How many people are struggling in their bended family? In some cases we are too emotionally involved to see any solutions. If you are still in love with your ex, despite the fact that they have moved on, You will not be able to come up with solutions that will help your blended family because your motives are wrong. If every time you see your mates "baby momma" your whole attitude changes or you are secretly wishing for their demise.... Your situation won't get better. Sometimes we have to look at our situations from a safe emotional distance in order to make the right decisions. Blended means we are connected somehow, no matter if you like it or not! How can a person wish their foot was cut off or would disappear and think that they can fully function? You can't! The same is with your blended family, in order to function all members must participate and function towards a common goal!