Who have you categorized?

Good Morning Blended Families!!

                One of the things that we as humans do is categorize objects, people, and events. Sometimes this is a good thing and other times, not so good. The problem is that once we categorize something, it is very, very difficult for us to see that thing or person in a different category.  For instance, your exes new mate may have been categorized as the enemy, so it is difficult to see them as a co-parent, friend, or even a human being. Your children’s father started off as a dead beat and that is the category that you put him under so now that he has changed, you still view him as that dead beat. You have blamed your step parent for your biological parents not being together so it becomes difficult to see them as someone who helps to take care of you, puts up with your attitude, and prays for you daily. What is the solution to this?????? It is not easy but this is where you MUST surround yourself with positive people that will pray and encourage you. You do not need people around who wants you in the same situation as them, drama, drama, drama!!!! Consider Blended 4a Purpose as a place to pray, encourage, support, and change. Leave a comment or email me at:kia2some@sbcglobal.net