Look out the other's window!

Today I want to challenge somebody, anybody to: LOOK IN THE OTHER'S WINDOW! I don't know who your other is. It could be your wife, husband, child, child's other parent, your ex's mate, etc.... We sometimes get so consumed in OUR view that we do not even consider the others. I know somebody is going to say "BUT you don't understand". I'm not saying that I do but our feelings and perspective could be what's clouding the relationship. Have you ever considered why your child's father chooses not to be in the child's life? NOT SAYING THAT IT IS RIGHT BY ANY MEANS! But maybe by looking through their window, you could see barriers that you may be putting up. Why does your ex's wife dislike you? Just maybe by looking through her window you would see that calling someone's else's husband at 2 in the morning about something unrelated to your child is the reason! Why does your child not respect the person you are with? Maybe, just maybe it could be because it is the 20th person that has come into your life that they have to get to know! Why does your child have a better relationship with another parent figure over you? Maybe because you have been in and out of their lives that they can't depend on you to be there for them in their time of need! To have better relationships, we must learn to look in the other person's window. Just then will we be able to better understand their point of view! From your view you could maybe see the beautiful sunset, but looking out of the opposite window.... There is sewer waste! Think about it.